How to Prevent Confusion During Home Remodeling
According to Houzz, 12% of couples consider divorce or separation during remodels. That's why it's so important to get everyone on board before the work begins.
Renovating a home is stressful enough in the best of times. Throw in contractors, interior designers, technicians, and an already difficult situation becomes even more challenging. On top of that, other house occupants also have opinions on how they want things to go. According to Houzz, 12% of couples consider divorce or separation during remodels. This is because the conflict and confusion surrounding house remodeling can be nerve-wracking. That's why it's so important to get everyone on board before the work begins. Check out some guidelines on how to avoid conflict during home renovations.
Define the goals
Before getting started with a home renovation, it's crucial to discuss the ultimate goal of the remodel. This step isn't about picking paint samples and tiles. It's about envisioning what the space should look like and getting everyone on the same page. This is the time to hash out disagreements about the use of the room or the overall feel that it should have.
Discuss priorities
The most challenging bit of a renovation project is right in the middle when every decision made starts to look like a bad one. The second-guessing begins, and self-doubt creeps in. The best way to avoid this messy middle is to start strong. Create a list of priorities that can be referred to when things start to feel off balance. Each household member should list five big-picture items that they hope to see at the end of the renovation. This list helps to focus on what's important. While the top priorities should remain intact, there is also some wiggle room for compromise.
Swap lists
Swapping a list of top priorities can help avoid future conflict and find more areas of compromise. Once everyone identifies what the other wants, fusing everything into a shared vision becomes easier. A couple's therapist developed this exercise to help partners find common ground. Although a home renovation isn't precisely the therapist's couch, the exercise can undoubtedly prove helpful in this instance. After completing the activity, have a conversation about the reasons behind the top priorities. This will help build empathy and improve the likelihood of a successful remodel.
Discuss the budget
Getting on the same page about the budget early on is essential in avoiding conflict down the road. It's also crucial to gather all the facts about the project and the financing options to make informed decisions right at the beginning. An honest conversation about what is affordable is crucial, as it helps set realistic goals. Conversations about money can be difficult, but an experienced contractor can help with the ins and outs of creating a reasonable budget.
Talk to a professional contractor
Home remodeling can be stressful and challenging. However, starting well means finishing well. Contact an experienced contractor right at the beginning to hash out every aspect of the project for a smoother process.
Eagle Home Renovation is a family-owned general contracting business offering 20 years of experience in residential home remodeling. We remodel kitchens and bathrooms, garages, balconies, porches, deck porches, and more for homeowners in Richmond, VA, and surrounding areas. Call us today at (804)538-3334.
